Tonight,my road to recovery continues positively.I had a pretty good day today.
Today,I woke up in the early morning and I bathed.After my bath,I had my usual quick breakfast and my usual 2 cups of coffee.After breakfast,I did my personal PC work and I got dressed.I had some personal stuff planned for today and I wanted to be sure and ready for them all.
I first went to my usual Thursday morning spirituality group.I have been looking forward to this with a lot of enthusiasm and anticipation.
The group was wonderful.After it was all over,I headed over to a local community kitchen to have lunch and after I was finished with that.I headed straight home and that is where I stayed for the rest of the day as I had nothing else planned nor any place else to go.
When I got home,I simply relaxed and watched a little TV.
After eating,I watched the evening news for a while and I also did some more personal PC work.Overall,a pretty good day.
Though my recovery continues to go positively,I am still dealing and struggling,on a daily basis,with the symptoms of bipolar depression with schizophrenic tendencies.I am still attending my therapy sessions.I am also taking my medication as directed.I am hoping to continue feeling better in the days and months ahead.
Regarding my SSA struggles,I gave into temptation early this morning.I masturbated,but this time,it was more of an emotional craving rather than sexual.I was just feeling something early in the morning and I really can't describe the feeling in words.I simply gave in to the temptation to masturbate and after it was over,I really didn't feel much better.I mean,the initial feelings were positive,but within a split second,they turned into negative feelings of regret and remorse.I will just have to stay on guard and try to watch out the next time.Masturbation will never give me what I want as the feelings afterwards are not pretty once the reality sets in.But I still need to stay on guard and try to be stronger the next time.The craving might have been emotional this time around,but next time,it could be sexual and I need to be careful what I think about and whatever comes into my mind.If anyone is reading out there,I could still use some advice.If anyone can help,please do so.Thanks.It is just that I am so sick and tired of finding men more sexually attractive than women because I no longer want to find men more sexually attractive than women.Please,nobody try to talk me into accepting this and embracing it as I don't want to because it is not what God intended for me to be as a man.God wants me to be Heterosexual and not Homosexual.God made man and woman for a reason and that alone shows that he only approves of healthy and happy Heterosexuality and not Homosexuality as far as sexual activity goes.God never intended for sexuality to be used and abused the way that the world is using it and abusing it.I am really desperate here.I don't want to have anything sexual with a man,but my desires want me to.I am sick of having visions of naked men with impressive sized penises flooding my head.Again,if anyone can be of help and give me advice in this,I would very much appreciate that.Thanks so much in advance.I want my fellow men to accept me as I am and I also want that gender affirmation from them and the feelings of authenticity that go along with that affirmation that I so desperately need and so desperately searching for.Again,any help,advice or suggestions are appreciated.Thanks.Only women are supposed to find men more sexually attractive in the same manner that only men are supposed to find women more sexually attractive,as we are all biologically hard-wired for male-female compatibility.It is not the other way around as sexual relations with two members of the same gender is NOT an alternative to healthy and happy sexual relations between a man and a woman as that is the way that God intended all of us humans to be and also the way he intended sexuality to be as well.He never meant for us humans to find members of our own gender more sexually attractive.The Holy Bible repeatedly states in both the Old and New Testaments that this sort of sexual activity is sinful,wrong and unacceptable.Once again,if anyone out there,especially any really true Christians who read my blog regularly,can give me any helpful advice,suggestions and anything of that sort,please share by commenting on in the comments section.Again,Thanks so much in advance for doing so.I really hate finding men more sexually attractive as this is so wrong for me to be in the eyes of God through Jesus Christ.I want to find women more sexually attractive.Please give any helpful advice or comments in the comments section.Thanks.
Last night,I wrote another fantasy story that was on my mind for a long time and I did feel better.For now,I am putting this type of thing on hold for a while as I don't want to use it too much as it might backfire on me later on.But again,after it was written,the fantasy was out and after closing off the program without saving it,I felt better that it was no longer a part of me anymore.
As for tomorrow,I have made no plans.But whatever I do,I hope that it gives me positive benefits.
That was my day today and my hopes and plans for the day ahead.FJ